There are all kinds of people on the planet. Some aren’t always honest.
They sometimes lie, cheat or hide the truth. And it can be very painful especially when it impacts you directly.
People lie out of fear. The fear that if I tell the truth you won’t love me. Or not feeling that there’s another way to get certain needs met. Or lying to feel significant, look good and save face.
It can hurt deeply when someone lies to you, let alone someone whom you love deeply. The feeling of betrayal and pain can be heartbreaking.
It’s not possible to stop people from lying or being dishonest. This you have no control over. It’s only possible to be responsible for your own awareness, discernment and choices.
When lied to its easy to go into a victim position, and wallow in self pity. “Why did they do this to me?” Which only keeps you powerless and serves no purpose whatsoever.
Or you can choose to take responsibility for your choices.
Remember that everyone is doing the best that they can at their given level of their evolution.
Deep down we often know when people are lying to us. There are times when it’s undeniably obvious. However, there are moments when it’s not.
Yet even in those times, if you are totally honest, chances are that you may have had a sense that something was off but ignored it.
It’s easy to ignore, especially if you have no proof.
How many times have you had a hunch about something or someone but ignored it?
Pay attention to this very subtle feeling. It’s there for a reason. It’s your intuition. When you ignore or deny this subtle feeling, sense of intuition, you betray yourself. This is where the problem starts.
In doing so you lie to yourself.
When you ignore your intuition about someone you aren’t being responsible or respectful to yourself.
When you pay attention to your subtle intuitive feeling, you can honor what you feel and as a result make decisions about how to relate with people in a way that honors you.
People may lie to you, but when you don’t lie to yourself about their lying, you break out of the cycle of unnecessary suffering.
So when dealing with people in life, feel deeper, and trust your inner knowing. Don’t just listen to words, feel underneath to the intent and energy.
Don’t get lost in the fantasy of their potential and have an imaginary relationship. Have the courage to face reality of who they are right now directly. This will set you free.
Yes you will lose some friends, but if by being honest with yourself and speaking your truth they fall away, it just means that you are no longer vibrating on the same level.
Ultimately no one can lie to anyone. At the deepest level our souls are communicating with each other beyond words. Your souls know, whether you acknowledge it or not.
Quieten your mental chatter, bring your attention to the deeper level of your soul and listen.
You will hear the truth.
You are guided. Your soul has a GPS. It knows.
Trust and set yourself free.
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