We have all felt moments of jealousy.
I am not just talking about romantic jealousy, but that feeling of tightness when you hear about someone else’s success, or they have something that you want.
You might feel jealous that they have more money, that they are more successful, more beautiful, or have a better body.
Jealousy arises when you are focusing your attention outside of yourself and comparing yourself to other people. When you focus on who you aren’t rather than who you are, it only leads to suffering.
When you focus on what you don’t have rather than what you do have, you end up feeling stuck in a feeling of scarcity.
When you focus your attention outside of yourself, it can always seem that everyone else’s life seems better than your own.
But this is an illusion.
Jealousy arises when you forget who you really are, your own value, worth and sense of being enough.
The truth is: You are whole, perfect and complete. Nothing can and will ever change that.
Yet we sometimes forget.
When you forget your own innate perfection, you move into the feeling of scarcity, mistakenly thinking that there isn’t enough for all. That somehow someone else’s success takes away from your own.
This is an illusion.
The universe is abundant.
Celebrate the success of others as your own.
The more you can celebrate and bless the success of those around you, the more you open yourself to receive blessings in your life.
Jealousy arises when you forget who you really are and buy into the illusion of separation. When you know who you are as an Infinite being, and that you are inextricably interconnected with all existence, you know that what is living you is the same thing living everything and everyone. At the deepest level, you realize that there is no separation between you anything else.
We are all one, being lived and breathed by one Intelligence.
We are all on the same team, part of the same humanity. When anyone succeeds, in a sense, it’s your success too. It doesn’t take away from your own. They opened up that possibility for you as well and vice verse.
– So stop comparing yourself to others and focus on your own unique gifts.
– Give up waiting for some special moment in your life in order to give your gifts.
– Love yourself as you are and as you aren’t. You may not be “perfect” and that’s perfect because it makes you perfectly unique. When you stay focused on your uniqueness, you realize that there is no one like you and never will be.
You have no competition being yourself. And perhaps the greatest success in life is to be fully yourself.
As you embrace that you’re a unique and amazing expression of the universe, your jealousy will melt away. Then you can celebrate yourself and more easily celebrate others.
You are living art!
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