Life is filled with decisions.

The decisions you made yesterday got you to where you are today.

The decisions you make today will create your future tomorrow.

With your decisions, you have a power to sculpt your destiny.

Yet given the increased choices we have in our high tech age, making decisions on one level has become easier, you can now do it with the touch of a button. On the other hand, it can also be more difficult since we have so many more options to choose from.

Have you ever had to make an important decision and felt unsure, confused, or even felt paralyzed?

The fear of making the wrong decision, the fear of missing out or what other people will think, can majorly affect your ability to decide authentically.

As a result, we can often end up up living for someone else and making choices to please friends and family rather than being true to ourselves.

You cannot be truly happy and fulfilled living your life for someone else.

You cannot be truly content and at peace being someone that you are not.

So consider this:

What if you couldn’t make a wrong decision? …. That every decision you made (of course not including putting yourself or others in unnecessary danger/harm) was perfect, and everything that you experienced as a result was exactly what you needed to experience for your highest soul’s growth and evolution.

Trust that each decision you make will take you on the journey that you need to go on in order to learn the lessons and become the person you are meant to be. Just make sure you learn the lessons so that you don’t have to repeat certain painful experiences.

When you are faced with making an important decision, try this:

  1. Be still- Rather than spinning in your mind, step back and become quiet. As you take space, listen to your inner knowing and deeper intuition beyond your mind. From this place, feel the deepest truth in your heart. Listen, honor and trust it.
  2. Highest evolution- Ask yourself, “Does making this choice serve my soul’s highest growth, as well as that of all those that will be impacted by my decision?” Choose the path that will serve the most growth of all souls concerned. Yes, it sometimes requires that you initially make the more difficult choice, but if you take the easy way out, you will likely have to face the same situation again at some point in your life.
  3. No regrets- If you are still not sure what to do, ask yourself, “If I don’t do this or if I do do this, would I have any regrets?” Bottom line, make the choices so that you do not live your life with any regrets. There are no refunds in the game of life.

At the deepest level, there is a part of us that KNOWS what we really want and what we need to do. We are often afraid to own what we know because of the consequences of our decisions.

To own your knowing and live it is to take full responsibility for your life and reclaim your power.

You are more powerful than you can imagine.

With your choice, you can create universes and impact the world.

Choose wisely.

Love.Now

Kute

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4 comments on “How To Make A Decision

  1. Jennifer on

    This is so true Thankyou for sharing this wisdom. I did this with a relationship a few years ago and it torn me apart inside but I knew on a deeper level that it wasnt the right one for me. To this day coming full circle I can see why after i took my emotional self out of going into to fear and other outdated beliefs about myself that I made the right decision. Growth can be scary but your higher self is always looking out for you. Trust it!!!

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  2. Carrie Sechel on

    Thanks so much for the awesome video! A couple years ago I was faced with a life changing decision to stay in the amazing career I had built over 18 years, or plunge into the unknown. I fell apart resisting the plunge because I was terrified. However, I did it and now wake up every day feeling like I’m doing exactly what I am supposed to be doing. I truly believe that I have far more opportunity to maximize my value by following my inner feeling!

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