We have all done things that we felt bad about and judged ourselves for.

Whether it was:

Bad relationship choices.

The way you handled a break up.

Unwise financial decisions.

What are you still judging yourself for?

Maybe you have been holding yourself hostage, thinking you are a bad person or that God is judging you?

Consider this:

God doesn’t forgive.

Because God never judged you.

And if this is so, then why are you still judging you?

Judging what you did in the past keeps you stuck in the past. You can’t change the past no matter how much you judge.

Holding yourself a prisoner to your past only robs you of your present and limits your ability to create your future.

You are human and it’s inevitable that you will make “mistakes”. Your soul incarnated onto this planet to learn, grow and evolve. The way you grow is through experiences and lessons.

If you were going to do life perfectly, you wouldn’t need to be here.

You might think that you made mistakes, but they were simply the learning that your soul needed to go through to become more of who you really are.

Judging yourself is a waste of time. Rather than wallow in judgment, learn the lesson. And commit to changing your actions from this moment forward.

Realize that you did the best that you knew how to do at that time given.

No matter how bad your behavior was, underlying every behavior is a positive intention. When you acknowledge the underlying positive of your past behaviors, rather than judge, you begin the path of self-forgiveness.

So:

  1. Take responsibility for your actions.
  2. Learn and integrate the lessons.
  3. Make amends to those that you hurt.
  4. Forgive yourself.
  5. Take new actions consistent with your authentic truth.

You hold the lock and you hold the key to your freedom. Your past doesn’t have to determine your future.

Each day life is loving you unconditionally. The sun and moon shine on you. The air blesses you freely. Life doesn’t discriminate, it just loves you as you are.

No one can forgive you.

Only you can do it.

Forgive yourself, it’s the greatest gift you can give yourself.

Love.Now

Kute

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6 comments on “How To Forgive Yourself and Let The Past Go. 

  1. Sloane on

    Just what I needed to hear Kute, as always you come from such a clear place and speak of course the truth of
    what we don’t always see or want to see.
    I thank you for this amazing video, Blessings,

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  2. Zora on

    Not always an easy thing to do..forgiveness…and especially self-forgiveness. Yet in my experience, it’s the final step before total freedom. Period. So it’s worth making the effort by whatever healing modality is available, to get it done. Thanks Kute – well done!

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  3. ILONA on

    THANK YOU FOR YOUR ADVISE.
    I’M SO PROUD OF YOU ,WHERE YOU ARE NOW IN YOUR LIFE ,WITH ALL THET TO HELPING PEOPLE TO ANDERSTAND WHAT IS LIFE ABOUT HERE IN THIS EARTH.
    GOD BLESS YOU KOUT.
    LOVE
    ILONA

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