I was recently asked for some advice by a man who was dating a woman.

He asked in an email, “Should I pay for her dinner?”

I decided to record a video in response to him that also moved me to write a letter to women….

…………………………………………….

My Dear,

You are priceless.

In our culture today the real value of the feminine has been far undervalued and under-appreciated.

We tend to value things that we can touch, see, or understand with our logical mind.

But the real essence of who you are as woman is beyond form, dancing in the unseen, intangible realms.

The magic of the feminine is your mystery.

As a woman one of your gifts is your profound intuition. You sense, see, and feel things beyond the physical. You know things way in advance. People may call you crazy, unreasonable, even unrealistic, but know that nothing revolutionary was created by dreaming small and buying into limitations.

We need your feminine gifts now on this planet more than ever in human history. We need your vision and your multi-dimensional sensitivity.

You as woman have that magical ability to breathe life into something where there was nothing and give it form.

There is a reason that when you love you light up a room.

There is reason that when you give yourself to your man and support him with your heart’s devotion, his entire life transforms and even his income increases.

Your value is not in how you look, how much you weigh, how nice your skin is, whether you have no wrinkles or cellulite. Just you being an open-hearted, radiant, blessing force of love… you are the gift in itself.

Just you allowing your soul-shine to smile upon all those you come in contact with is grace.

So, never sell your heart, body, or soul for love. The love you will get this way isn’t real.

Stay true to who you are and your inner-knowing. This is one of the greatest gifts you can give us as men: Your authentic heart’s offering. If you aren’t you because you want us to love you, then we don’t really have YOU anyways.

You being fully self-expressed as the feminine is the gift.

There is nothing you need to DO and nothing you need to prove. I know we live in a culture where doing is worshiped, but know that just your presence is everything.

As a woman you are a profound alchemical portal of transformation for us men. You are a Universe of infinite wonder where all of life exists.

Do you really know the power you have in the depth of your heart to move universes with simply the blink of an eye or a smile?

Do you really know the power you have to resurrect a life and give hope just with your compassion and care?

Do you really know the power you have to shape the future of humanity with the way you love a child?

Do you really know the power you have to inspire, so much so that a man built the Taj Mahal for his wife, who was dead!

Out of you we are all birthed. For every human being alive, you were our first home for 9 months. Out of you we were literally formed and came into this world. Without you we wouldn’t be.

And with you we are more alive.

With you I feel like I can touch the skies.

With you there is nothing I cannot do.

I see you.

I honor you.

I love you.

Love.Now

Kute

P.S. If you are ready for big love and to live love fully, join me LIVE in a life-changing weekend for women only! May 13th-15th in Los Angeles…  www.themanbreakthroughexperience.com! I invite you to sign up now!

25 comments on “A Woman has NO Price Tag: A Letter to Women

  1. Carolyn J. Woodson on

    Please come to the east coast!!! We need your enthusiasm and truth!! You would be surprised and delighted. New York, Philadelphia, DC, Atlanta … pick one. You will be amazed. We need you TOO!!!

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    • Kute Blackson on

      hi Carolyn… I would love to come to east coast, and my plan is to come to NYC soon! look forward to connecting!

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  2. Erin on

    So beautiful, sweet and true. The world needs our sweet feminine love, the way our children do.
    I can imagine this worls and it makes my heart smile. 🙂

    Reply
  3. Vicky on

    I agree with Carolyn..I would love to see you on the Ease coast.. Each of your messages touches my heart and comes just when I need it. You are a blessing.

    Reply
  4. Eunice on

    Hey, we women on the East Coast are awsome..but the guys…???? need YOU to teach Big Love,Kute
    (9 women to every man here… but the guys seem afraid to communicate!)

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    • Kute Blackson on

      yes Eunice!! I would love to do something for the guys… i’m sure I will be coming soon to East Coast very soon and look forward to seeing you. big love

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  5. Marilee on

    Thank you again Kute for another inspirational blog/video! You have a lot of women sending you their cosmic love today! 🙂

    Reply
    • Kute Blackson on

      yes Marilee… thank YOU! share with all the women know… WE are igniting the feminine. It’s happening. much love

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  6. Pat Nichols on

    Thank you Kute for this eloquent, profound & passionate expression of how you see the divine feminine. You move me to tears as I feel the depth of this truth in my heart. You have said in words what I have felt, but have been unable to explain clearly (recently) to a man over this very subject of “who pays”. A dear friend and I signed up for your “The Man Breakthrough Experience” the day of the announcement. We are flying our way from Canada to your amazing seminar. Absolutely cannot wait. Goddess Bless You. Love & Light Always.

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  7. gloria on

    Kute How beautiful
    Can we copy your beautiful words? I tried to highlight and copy but it wouldn’t let me. Anyway to get a copy of those amazing words? I want to send it to some amazing woman i know.

    Thanks
    Gloria

    Reply
    • Kute Blackson on

      yes Gloria! share with all you know – you should be able to copy, i’m not sure why… here are the words:

      My Dear,

      You are priceless.

      In our culture today the real value of the feminine has been far undervalued and under-appreciated.

      We tend to value things that we can touch, see, or understand with our logical mind.

      But the real essence of who you are as woman is beyond form, dancing in the unseen, intangible realms.

      The magic of the feminine is your mystery.

      As a woman one of your gifts is your profound intuition. You sense, see, and feel things beyond the physical. You know things way in advance. People may call you crazy, unreasonable, even unrealistic, but know that nothing revolutionary was created by dreaming small and buying into limitations.

      We need your feminine gifts now on this planet more than ever in human history. We need your vision and your multi-dimensional sensitivity.

      You as woman have that magical ability to breathe life into something where there was nothing and give it form.

      There is a reason that when you love you light up a room.

      There is reason that when you give yourself to your man and support him with your heart’s devotion, his entire life transforms and even his income increases.

      Your value is not in how you look, how much you weigh, how nice your skin is, whether you have no wrinkles or cellulite. Just you being an open-hearted, radiant, blessing force of love… you are the gift in itself.

      Just you allowing your soul-shine to smile upon all those you come in contact with is grace.

      So, never sell your heart, body, or soul for love. The love you will get this way isn’t real.

      Stay true to who you are and your inner-knowing. This is one of the greatest gifts you can give us as men: Your authentic heart’s offering. If you aren’t you because you want us to love you, then we don’t really have YOU anyways.

      You being fully self-expressed as the feminine is the gift.

      There is nothing you need to DO and nothing you need to prove. I know we live in a culture where doing is worshiped, but know that just your presence is everything.

      As a woman you are a profound alchemical portal of transformation for us men. You are a Universe of infinite wonder where all of life exists.

      Do you really know the power you have in the depth of your heart to move universes with simply the blink of an eye or a smile?

      Do you really know the power you have to resurrect a life and give hope just with your compassion and care.

      Do you really know the power you have to shape the future of humanity with the way you love a child?

      Do you really know the power you have to inspire, so much so that a man built the Taj Mahal for his wife, who was dead!

      Out of you we are all birthed. For every human being alive, you were our first home for 9 months. Out of you we were literally formed and came into this world. Without you we wouldn’t be.

      And with you we are more alive.

      With you I feel like I can touch the skies.

      With you there is nothing I cannot do.

      I see you.

      I honor you.

      I love you.

      Love.Now

      Kute

      P.S. If you are ready for big love and to live love fully, join me LIVE in a life-changing weekend for women only! May 17th – 19th in Los Angeles… http://www.themanbreakthroughexperience.com! I invite you to sign up now!

      Reply
  8. Jeannette on

    Kute-
    Thank you for allowing the Feminine to speak through you and being a voice for Her. To see a man support the Feminine is such a beautiful gift that it brings tears of gratitude. The last 2 years have been the most thrilling of my life so far because in those 2 years I stopped struggling, stopped trying to be something I was not and surrendered myself to the Feminine. As a woman, I did not realize she was missing in my life however I did feel this something pulling at me and when I realized that it was Her there was absolutely no way I was turning back. I feel as if I have died and been reborn. Now that I am committed to Her in everyway I am slowly re-emerging into the world stronger than ever and so excited to really live Her, in my own unique way, in all of Her love and glory. Thank You.

    Reply
    • Kute Blackson on

      yes Jeannette! thank YOU! it is a part of my mission… as the feminine becomes alive we will all be blessed!

      Reply
  9. Lasare on

    Well said sir 🙂
    I am being loved like this…it is a revelation that I have spent years becoming ready to attract/allow…..it is the most beautiful way of life I could ever have imagined and I am blessed, blissed and ever-appreciative for the path of life I am living… and the man who shares it with me..

    Reply
  10. Maria on

    YYYYYYYYYYEEEEEEESSSSSSS!

    Thanks again, Kute. All Goddesss love it when ANY man can appreciate her sacredness. My “happy vibes” are spreading out into the neighborhood right now! AND you, Kute must be getting a lot of great vibes from all these Goddesses apreciating you. You deserve it. <3

    Reply
    • Kute Blackson on

      thanks so much maria. I just share what is in my heart. And i ma happy your happy vibes are spreading out!.. keep on…. The Goddess has blessed me in so many ways, and i am honored to serve.

      Reply
  11. Tirzalishezz on

    Kute,

    I have never felt more appreciated, SEEN as who I truly am and my divinity worshipped as an incarnation of goddess than in this video by you! Let me worship you tenfold as an incarnation of god for this! <3 In Western society, the emphasis of all value judgments so lies in matters of finance, it is sickening at times. To me, money is a form of energy – one energy of many that is a TOOL, not a status symbol and most of all not a value judgment. Many men don't seem to understand that when they pay for a dinner or a bouquet of flowers, etc. it is a space of appreciation they create and they are being shown the woman's appreciation in many other forms of energy. I can pay for my own dinner, I am raising three children completely on my own. I can do all that, but I feel like I have to be so masculine-energetic all the time that being cared for and given this safe space you described is invaluable. To me, it has to be accompanied by a hug, a feeling that I am safe emotionally and the man I am with will have my back, no matter what when he is with me. In this space, I can relax and be what I most long to be – just WOMAN! And I am a very giving person myself. When given the safe space to unfold myself, miracles do indeed happen! LOVE YOU LOTS! Tirza from Germany <3 <3 <3

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  12. Wtigerlight aka Wendy on

    Hey you crazy burst of love! Kute, you are an amazingly divine messenger of the power of the universal goddess. This IS the time of rebalancing of the feminine energy on planet Earth, especially here in America. I am currently working through the next level of abuse from my past. Its a big onion! Your passion for our beingness helped me to remember, right here on my couch in NY, how special I am, how sacred my body is, how divine my love, light and compassion is to all who know me. This belief in myself was not my orientation because of many years preparing for my healership, which included many dark moments of abuse, neglect, fear, criticism and being disempowered as a woman. At 49, I am reawakening to what is true for ME, respecting what I need, who I want around me, how I treat my body, mind, heart and spirit. Love led me straight to your website! I was perusing around looking at motivational speaker websites (I am a speaker with BIG dreams about how I can set this place on fire with my personal brand of love. I join the NY chorus of women who want you to come here to light up the Big Apple with your special brand of mojo. Rock on my sweet brother! I hope to meet you soon…NAMASTE, but of course

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  13. Erin on

    I second everything everyone is saying here! You are truly amazing Kute Blackson and a WONDERFUL model for all humans, but for men especially! I pray more men will open up to your awareness and understanding, your powerful consciousness and love. Thank you thank you thank you. I love you.

    Reply
  14. Robin on

    touched to tears…
    resting in goddess posture on my floor rug…
    This is an invaluable and mostly forgotten teaching that you offer, Kute.
    It very well may have the power to keep the human race alive and dancin’ on this planet.
    Thank you!

    Reply

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