Your parents are your first teachers.
The parents you have, have been the perfect parents for you and the lessons that you needed to learn in this life.
You have the perfect parents for your soul’s evolution.
So rather than trying to make them into something, accept what they are, and what they aren’t. Then you free yourself to receive what they are able to give you.
They may not be able to give you all that you wanted, but they can give you all that they can, based on the level they are at.
Just the fact that they have given you life is in and of itself a huge gift!
They brought you into this life and impacted you profoundly. Much of who you are today is as a result of them.
But to truly be free there comes a point where you must let them go in order to grow. You must take responsibility for who you are now and what you choose to create in your future.
Your parents are no longer responsible for your current circumstances. You are not a victim.
We often hold anger, resentments, and old grudges towards our parents for what we feel happened to us as children, often blaming them for where we are today, making our current circumstances their fault.
This state of mind is a victim mentality and gives away your power. The past is gone and blaming them in the present limits your ability to create a new future.
Taking responsibility for where you are today sets you free and empowers your life.
Remember that your parents are also souls learning their own lessons in this life, they have their own journey and karma.
So let your parents go, in doing so you free yourself!
Sometimes it’s hard to let them go because we still want to get love from them or for them to be a certain way. You might be afraid that if you truly let them go this will mean accepting that you may never have the type of relationship with them that you always desired, so you might resist. This resistance only creates suffering.
Even if your relationship with your parents is currently wonderful, letting them go simply frees you up to become your own person fully, step into your power more profoundly and will only expand your ability to love them!
Forgiving your parents is the first act of power. Blessing them and being in gratitude for all the lessons they gifted you is the next act of freedom.
Sometimes we think that to forgive our parents is to condone their behavior or somehow make what they did or didn’t do OK. Forgiving isn’t so much for them but for you. You forgive to set yourself free. It requires giving up your sense of being “right”.
What would you need to let go of in order to truly let your parents go?
When you let them go you begin a new life.
When you let them go you grow up into a more powerful version of yourself and begin a new relationship with YOU.
Step into your power.
Let your parents go.
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