Everything is energy.

When you have sex you exchange energy with your partner. Anyone you have sex with has an impact on you and vice versa.

So… Does having sex with your EX affect your ability to manifest your soulmate?

I believe that the answer is “Yes”.

There is a reason that they are now your ex. Most likely on some level you are no longer a vibrational match, or simply not compatible.

When you have sex with your ex you reinforce the old bonds and connection with them. You keep yourself mentally, emotionally, and energetically attached to them.

If you are serious about attracting your soulmate, it’s important to create the space in your life and in your heart to welcome the presence of the soul you are seeking to call forth. When you create the space that is clear and inviting, it is more likely to magnetize a person that resonates with you on that level.

Your job is not to “manifest” your soulmate, but simply to remove whatever might be in the way of you being ready, open and available.

So take a look at any old hurt you may carry, or resentments that you might be holding onto.

Take a look at any incompletions with ex’s you might still have.

Take a look at any limiting beliefs around relationships and love that may still be affecting you. All of these may be taking up space inside your heart and blocking love from showing up in your life.

Continuing to have sex with your ex, is likely to keep you energetically stuck in the past. I am not saying it couldn’t ever work, in certain cases, but most likely a part of your attention will be taken up by that old connection, even if you know it’s over and not leading anywhere.

Everything is energy. So if you truly want to manifest your soulmate, then let go of the past and start fresh. In doing so, you also let go of the person that YOU were, who attracted your ex in the first place. As you let go of who you were, you become the most authentic version of your self.

You attract into relationship a person that mirrors to you who you are. If you want to attract someone different, you have to be someone different. You have to be the person worthy of the partner that you desire to be in a relationship with.

So if you are having sex with your ex… Or in some way still attached…

Ask yourself, Is it truly serving you both and your soul’s evolution?

Are you honoring yourself and your ex?

Are you doing so whilst secretly hoping your partner might change?

Are you avoiding the finality of the end of your relationship?

Are you continuing to engage out of familiarity and comfort?

Or are you simply settling?

You get what you settle for. When you stop settling, and honor and respect yourself, you raise your standard, thus invite a higher quality of love into your life. You must let go of the old to be fully available for the new.

When you break up with your ex, it doesn’t mean you can’t be friends and recreate an entirely new relationship. Just because the form changes, it doesn’t mean the love has to go away. You just get to express love to each other in a different manner.

Your body is a temple. When you have sex it is a sacred exchange. It has an impact on your heart.

If you are clear you want big love, clear the space for a love that big to have room to show up in your life.

You are big love.



P.S. If you are ready to transform the hidden blocks that keep you from love and creating the life of your dreams, join me and women from all over the world at www.themanbreakthroughexperience.com on October 9-11th in Los Angeles.  Sign up now for a discounted price and to bring a family member for Free!

P.P.S. I would love to hear your comments below!

105 comments on “Does SEX with Your EX Impact Your Ability To Manifest Your Soulmate?

    • Kute Blackson on

      Thank you Silja!! I appreciate your sharing and reading my blogs… they come from my heart. Keep enjoying!! Sending love!

  1. Mariam on

    Hello Kute,

    I love your videos and writings, your very way of expressing itself, and your effort to be authentic. Sending you love, joy and blessings 😀 <3

  2. Linda on

    Thank you for verifying this very thing for me! Now that I wish to draw in my soulmate, how do you get closure or deal with unfinished business with an ex? Your input is appreciated.


    Dear Dr. Kute,

    Sir, “surely SEX with EX Impact’s ones’ Ability To Manifest Soulmate in a negative way”, it would be always better to avoid such “past-passed-on-clouds” and to ride in a clear sky for the rest of one’s life.

    Thank you sir for the opportunity.


  4. Sophie Auber on

    I love you Kute, thank you from the bottom of my heart for your wisdom, beautiful energy and your love. Your videos are always so spot on for me!
    Big huge gratitude and love xxxxx

  5. Thuy-Hong Nguyen on

    Hi Kute,

    I enjoy your YouTube videos. You speak with depth and warmth. I completely agreed with your statement:
    “Your body is a temple. When you have sex it is a sacred exchange. It has an impact on your heart.”

    Sex is beyond physical and biological. It is very spiritual. A body is where our soul occupies; nourish, respect, and honor it. Thank you for sharing your beautiful insight and thoughts.

    • Kute Blackson on

      Thank you for sharing Thuy-Hong!! So glad you enjoyed the blog. Continue nourishing your body and honoring yourself. Much love!

  6. JK on

    Kute, my Brother…

    How could you have known (or, really, how could NOT know) that this was precisely the conundrum with which I am faced. So clear. So precise. So perfect. LoveAllWays.

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