No one can take advantage of you unless you allow it.
It’s your responsibility.
People treat you how you teach them to treat you.
How are you teaching people in your life to treat you?
When you choose to stop blaming others for how they treat you and take responsibility for what you have allowed, you are no longer a victim.
Focusing on what they are doing or not doing and pointing the finger is a waste of energy and solves nothing.
Stop blaming and you set yourself free.
There are moments when you must learn to say “No” to others. It may sometimes be challenging and might upset those around you. But saying “Yes” and allowing yourself to be taken advantage of doesn’t serve you or anyone else.
When you don’t set your healthy boundaries, you betray yourself. And in doing so, you take advantage of YOU.
It’s time to stop.
As you honor yourself and make choices that affirm your self respect and self loving, you become powerful. Those around you will feel your energy, strength and alignment. As a result, they learn to treat you with the same respect that you treat yourself.
And the people in your life tend to mirror your own relationship with yourself.
It starts with you.
You have the power.
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