If you don’t ask, you don’t receive.
If you want to receive big, you must dare to ask big.
But sometimes you might ask and still not receive.
There is an art to asking for help and what you want.
In order to manifest your dream or vision, you will need other people’s support. No one did anything great alone.
It takes real courage to ask for help.
Pretending you don’t need it is a sure sign of weakness.
When you are truly strong, you can allow yourself to be vulnerable.
Vulnerability is not weakness, rather it is strength.
It takes a strong person to acknowledge they need help.
It takes an even stronger one to ask for it.
It takes a yet stronger one to accept and receive it.
It’s often easier at times to be the one giving to others rather than the one receiving. To receive requires that you open your heart and let someone into it. To receive is to allow someone to touch you deeply.
Here are 4 simple keys to remember:
- Be clear and focused about what you want and are asking for. And articulate it clearly so it’s understood by all.
- Get clear on your motivation and WHY you want what you are asking for. People are more likely to want to help you and support you if they are clear on your authentic purpose for asking.
- Don’t just seek to simply take from the person you are making a request. Seek to add some reciprocal value to their lives. They are busy people and likely there are many people that want something from them. Be a contribution rather than a burden.
- Let go of attachment. When you ask, it may often not come from the person you think it was going to come from. So drop your attachment to who, where, and how your support should come. Simply allow yourself to be open and available to the infinite Grace of the Universe.
When you ask for help, you are also giving others a gift. In receiving, you are giving. When you refuse help, you rob others the blessing of opening their hearts in giving to you.
The giving and receiving are a part of the same cycle.
The entire universe is giving to you each moment. Air is giving you life. Nature is giving you beauty. The sun is giving you light and warmth.
So how much love are you willing to open your heart and allow yourself to receive?
The universe is seeking to support you.
Dare to ask for help, rather than silently suffering, thinking those around you should be psychic and know what you need. This is the victim’s way.
If you don’t ask, you won’t receive.
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