Sometimes when things don’t work out the way you planned, it’s a blessing in disguise, even if it doesn’t seem that way at first.

We often have an idea of what we want and what we think will be best for us. We often want what we want when we want it.

It can be frustrating when things don’t go according to plan or you aren’t where you want to be in life. Especially when you try everything in your power to make it happen.

Your mind may want certain things in life, but sometimes your soul actually longs for something different, deeper and more aligned.

Just because you want a certain outcome doesn’t mean it’s actually the best thing for your soul’s growth and evolution. Your soul has an intelligence beyond the mind.

You incarnated into this human experience in order to learn lessons, to grow and evolve. There may be experiences that you need to go through in order to grow, so that you can become the highest version of yourself.

You may not be able to see it in the very moment, but if you are willing to trust, life will show you the reason why things didn’t work out the way you wanted them to.

Trust that there is always a reason.

Trust that when things don’t work out how you want them to, they are working out exactly how they are meant to for your highest growth. Be open to the possibility that they are working out better than you can imagine.

So when you aren’t where you want to be in life, trust that you are exactly where you are meant to be because there are lessons you still need to learn exactly where you are.

When what you do doesn’t seem to work out, rather than feeling disempowered, become curious and open. Ask yourself:

  • What better thing could possibly be seeking to unfold here?
  • What is my soul wanting to learn through this experience?

When things don’t work out according to plan, you can give up and take it as a sign that what you are working on isn’t really meant to be.

Or you can use it as an opportunity to double check that the goal you are working on is truly authentic and then recommit.

Either way you can use the result as feedback from life and course correct accordingly.

Life doesn’t always give you what you want. But I believe that it gives you what you most need in order to become who you are meant to be.

Your responsibility is to do your very best and give 100% in all that you do. The rest is up to the universe.

Trust life.

Let go of control.

Surrender to the highest good.

You can’t always control the outcomes of life, but you can control how much you love.

So no matter what happens, love fully.



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6 comments on “What To Do When You’re Not Where You Want To Be

  1. MH on

    Excellent read; sometimes it almost feels as if you are speaking directly to me and what seems to be applicable to my life at that moment.
    Thank you for the share and for all you do!

  2. Barry Myhre on

    Hi Kute
    I have just watched your video – What to do when your not where you want to be.

    I’m 68 years old, have mobility problems, especially when it’s cold.

    I was born in poverty in the North East of England, went to church from very young.
    I went to London when I was 19, with a tool box and £2, and worked day and night.

    I now own my big house in London, plus some yards and garages, I want to sell up and move to somewhere quiet, in a big house, which I planned from the very start.

    I tried to buy a big old school, my girlfriend is a music teacher, and wants to have her own school, the council planning department said I could live in the school, and spend time getting it ready before applying for business use, I sent in the application with the fee, and waited, I rang them, they said they wanted more money, but could not explain why, I had to send it, then I got the run around, had to pay a lot more fees for all kinds of nonsense, eventually they decided that I could not do what I planned to do, so I had to abandon the idea, of course I did not get any refund.

    Then I saw a big old mansion, I made an offer, was accepted, I started to pack, then the agent said I had been outbid by £50,000, I could not make another offer, so gave it up.

    Three months later, the agent rang said their buyer had backed out, do I still want it, yes – I need to see if my buyer is still there – no, gone, so had to leave it.

    The next spring, I got a buyer again for my house, I put an offer in for the mansion, started to pack again, then got a call from the agent, I’ve been outbid again by £50,000, so I had to abandon it again.

    A buyer told me to find another property, I found an adequate one, asked him to buy mine, he said he had to get some money from China, will take 3 months!

    I said it will be December by then, it will be winter, I can’t walk in the winter, so can’t move.

    So, here I am, worked hard, been good, in a good financial position to move – but am being blocked every time I try and move!

    Maybe you can see some sense in it?

    Best regards


  3. Jewelry by Sloane on

    So powerful and I am going to share it with my reiki clients so they can begin to follow and learn from you!
    Thanks for reminding me that I am holding and that is what is jamming up my flow, Kute big love you are just
    always on spot for me.

  4. Zora on

    When you mentioned, “…it’s ALL about alignment..”, you were not kidding! It’s a basic Law of Attraction bylaw, arguably the most important part of attracting what you wish into your life. And then you mentioned “SURRENDER”…an even BIGGER “must” to allowing what you have attracted, to happen. Because oftentimes, we misunderstand what is happening as it unfolds, and tend to react with “ego-self” in a self-protective way, thus throwing ourselves back OUT of alignment of those very manifestations. Life DOES have it’s own timetable…and often the “it’s not here yet” scenario IS a result of life unfolding to catch up with our desires…this happens to me over and over and over – sometimes many incidences at once, and it’s during THOSE times that I find I have to re-mind myself, re-align myself, and re-SURRENDER to the natural flow of the process. Thank you – this is one of my favourite videos by you, so far! Merry Christmas! 🙂

  5. Yukari on

    I’ve got to know of you in a YouTube video of Mr Ken Honda.
    What I have been trying to do is to ‘Be myself and trust myself’. Your videos and articles are so poweful. Thanks for your inspiring messages.
    Any plans to come to UK for seminars or workshop in near future, please?


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