How to Love a Woman: A Letter to Men


My Brothers,

Forget trying to figure her out. She is beyond your mind. She is a sweet mystery. Allow her to be that and she will shine more brightly.

She doesn’t need to be understood with your mind. Just love her. Feel her heart not just her body. You will find an infinite river of surprises and delights of endless wonder.

Tell her something sweet everyday. You will be amazed at what she gives you back in return.

You will never be able to out-give her. Her heart is vast like the ocean itself. So don’t be cheap with her. Give her all you’ve got.

She will give you more than you could ever imagine.

When she opens and lets you into her being, tread with care and tenderness. Her heart is a sacred universe and her body is a temple that you are blessed to worship inside.

She will reveal to you the magic of the moment.

Yes, appreciate her beauty but remember she is so much more. The real essence of woman is beyond physical.  She exists as a formless dance. Meet her there and she will show you the meaning of real love. She will show you the face of the Goddess.

She is a living smile.

Allow and embrace all her moods like the changing weather. Enjoy the rainbow taste of each flavor that she gives you. Let it tickle your heart and make you stronger.

When you think she is being difficult or giving you a hard time, this is not the time to run away and hide. This is the time to breathe, stand in the storm, feel her deeper, look into her eyes, and reassure her of your love.

Don’t just listen to the words she says, as you may get confused, but feel her heart and really listen to her heart’s pure language.

Listen to the heartbeat of her soul.  It is a gift often way ahead of your mind. She knows things. Trust me she just does.

Don’t try to control her. Create a safe space for her to be herself fully, and she will give you everything in herself like an unconditional river of devotion.

Woman is love.

She is life. She is grace. She is a great mystery.

Bottom line, just love her fully.

Just love her.

This is what she really wants.

Pretty simple.


Kute Blackson.

P.S. If you are a woman who feels ready to transform the hidden blocks that have kept you from being love fully then join me at May 13-15th. It will be a life-changing weekend!

10 comments on “How to Let a Man Know You Are Interested…. (and a Special Letter to Men)

  1. geneviève on

    Dear Kute,
    I love you so much; your that jewel of a being… What you have to say and how you offer it is deeply nurturing to me. Thank you !
    It also feels great to hear that from a man.


  2. Shelly on

    The letter to Man, is stunningly beautiful and touched my Soul. My dream is to magnetize that kind of love into my life. Thank you for putting it into words…

  3. Vicki on

    Kute, You are an amazing voice for conscious love. This planet needs your brilliant message. It nourishes me and my goddess in how I relate with my partner (god/man). Much gratitude and appreciation for the Love you are, be, bring, and spread through the field of lovers living consciously now. Abundant blessings! All LOVE. Vicki

  4. Lucy on

    Knowing that he is “the one” and wanting to share my soul but how do I approach him if he´s so distant? How can I “break the ice” and attract him without seeming chasing?
    Kute, your messages are cure to my wounds.

  5. Flower on

    KUTE, AT 43 THATS THE BEST ADVICE I EVER HEARD. If I am always living from my soul, then it doesn’t seem to matter if the man is interested or not. I now know that Im being myself and thats the best relationship to have. x

  6. JoAnne on

    You get it. I think many others could, but they fight it instead of accepting it. Thank you for the love and acceptance. Loving. Now.

  7. Jenn on

    From the depths of my soul Kute, THANK YOU! I was smiling the entire way through this video, belly flutters and all. This is what we all deserve, men and women. Being vulnerable, authentic and FEMININE is what our planet needs in creating conscious relationships!
    So much Love to you Kute!

  8. Kati Alexandra on

    dearest Kute,
    this video and the note to men afterwards has touched my heart beyond measure. it has invited me to bare the truth of my love even more fully. i open my heart wide and love big! it is a template for the way i want to love and the way i want to be loved. interestingly today, after giving this time to marinate, i have met someone that to me feels like i would like to dance relationship as i have never yet before. do you have any idea how powerful your messages are, dear man? do you know the impact they have on life? do you know how greatly you are loved for being you? i love you!!!!


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