What other people think about you is none of your business.

It’s their business.

Wasting your time thinking about what they are thinking about you, serves nothing.

Seeking approval is a waste of your time and energy. It will only bring you suffering.

It’s not about whether others approve of you but if you approve of you.

This is what counts.

Being popular with the world at the expense of your soul is a true booby prize.

How people perceive you reveals more about themselves than it does about you. People will perceive you based on their own conditioning and filters. So don’t take it personally.

We sometimes hold back being fully ourselves, or stepping out and living our purpose in a big way because of the fear of being judged and what people will think or say.

Here’s the deal: When you put yourself out there in the world, and dare to follow your dreams, it is a risk. It is a vulnerable and courageous act.

People will judge you.

People will talk about you.

People will project their stuff onto you.

It is what it is.

In fact some people won’t like you. And they don’t even know you. This is unavoidable. Make peace with this up front.

Do not give those that don’t even know you the power to determine your happiness.

Do not give even those that know you the power to determine who you should be and what your limits are.

Know who you are.

As you accept yourself as you are and as you are not. You become powerful. You consolidate your energy and remain rooted in your center. You become free.

When you no longer seek other people’s approval you are free. As you unhook yourself from other people’s validation you become truly powerful.

Your soul is already SELF validated.

You can please some of the people some of the time but you can’t please all the people all of the time. In fact there will be those that, no matter what you do, will think negatively and never be satisfied. This has nothing to do with you.

Jesus. Bruce Lee. Gandhi. Bob Marley. Martin Luther King Jr. They all had people that didn’t like them.

Remember that there really are no enemies. Just those that don’t know you yet and neither themselves.

At the end of the day you are the one that has to live with yourself.

Even if you do get others approval, if it’s at the expense of yourself, it won’t be truly satisfying.

Trying to get people’s approval is a form of control. But in doing so you are the one that ends up controlled.

The energy it takes is not worth it, as it often requires you give up a part of yourself in order to get the approval.

It’s expensive.

As I often say, if everyone likes you you might want to be concerned. When you follow your heart you will make waves in this world.

You will stand out.

You will upset some people.

You will create change.

Life is a daring adventure to be lived with no regrets.

It takes true boldness to be yourself fully.

People have the right to think whatever they want to think about you.

Let that be their business.

So what do you think about you?

What other people think about you is none of your business!



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P.S. I would love to hear your thoughts in the comments below!

31 comments on “What other people think about you is NONE of your business!

  1. India on

    Kute, you are so inspiring. Powerful Video!
    “You can please some of the people some of the time but you can’t please all the people all of the time. In fact there will be those that, no matter what you do, will think negatively and never be satisfied. This has nothing to do with you.”

  2. Ann-Kristin on

    Your words “arrive” always “just in time”…right day/right theme and my first response is always: “he is so true” and “thank you” and “I love you”…I really do, because you really speak from your deepest/highest level of your Soul…so seldom, so beautiful…thank you…

  3. adeep on

    Hey Kute , you write so purely that you take us close to supreme power. While moving within I was guessing that these things were a science but you made me think that no its all divine!



  4. BETTY M on

    hello kute, I want to thank you for ALL OF YOUR YOU-TUBE TALKS. I soooo agree with this one. I heard it in AA several years ago. God has given you such a REAL talent to speak as you do. I love ur accent….. it is really ‘cool’. Keep on doing your work; it is very special. oh how people need this kind of ‘honesty’ and this kind of information. Today I am a FREE woman. I am so very thankful for that gift that has been given to me as a result of a ‘whole lot of pain (much of it self-imposed).
    you are a very special person.

  5. Airaa on

    Kute, You are FULL of it so FULL OF IT!! FULL of LOVE! When you speak from your heart it feels like energy of truth for me! I love you and I am very grateful for you!

  6. Tirzalishezz on

    I know the feeling of friends living out their own fears and jealousies about you following your dream. And the better it flows for you, the worse they seem to get. I do recognize the underlying motivations, but some people you have to let go because their negativity pollutes your vibes, if you don’t. Sad, but true. Otherwise, I have always been a little rebel, so I’ve gone my own path all my life. Luckily, I found my higher self path now to walk! Exhilarating! I’m so happy you never let anyone else’s fears stand in your way (for long?) because you help a lot of people and you have a great gift which is a blessing for all who come into contact with it! Thank you for being you! Thank you for BEing!

    Love and light! <3


  7. Vicki on

    Thanks for all your great words your emails always come to me at the right moment.
    Thank you so much for share your wisdom
    Hugs vicki

  8. Natalya on

    Thank You Very Much for this topic, Kute. It is very important one. Just Thank You, no more comments… that is exactly what i need right now!!!
    From my side i would like to say You, don’t listen anyone who is trying to belittle you. You are Great! & this is fact without any comments. I’m very happy that i have found out people in life who inspiring me, pushing me to something good in life &showing me the way out of many difficult situations in life that i can’t cope myself. It’s very rear in life, its a Unique Gift given by birth not to everyone. & You are the owner of IT. i’m happy that You are many Levels Up than me &by doing your job you help me to move up in my development too. Thank You.

  9. Amber Leonard on

    AMAZING! Thank you for these words, I needed to hear them. And whenever I need a little reminder I will come back and read them again 🙂 much love to you!


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