I often get asked a lot in my seminar The Man Breakthrough Experience, “Kute, how do I turn a man down when I am not interested?”.
So I addressed this in my new blog video and decided to write a letter to men about this too! (See below)
As a woman: You are pure light. And your light is an inspiration.
Toning down your light so no one sees you serves no one. Hiding your light to make others feel more comfortable is a disservice.
Your radiance is a gift. It’s not what you DO but your Beingness that will shift the vibrations of a room, space, or situation.
Everything can be done with LOVE…Even when you turn a man down.
When you approach a woman remember that she is not simply a body. The real woman is a living essence, her real form is beyond physical.
It’s easy to get caught up in her mesmerizing form. Feel beyond her form if you really want to meet her. What you see with your physical eyes is only her beginning, just the first layer. If that’s all you see you aren’t really seeing her. Her body is just the beginning of a most amazing journey to your own heart.
To really see her you must see with your heart and feel with your eyes, then she will reveal herself to you. The deeper you enter her heart the more depths you will find. She is an endless ocean of love. If you have the courage to really love her she will give you everything. She will show you Universes beyond your mind.
When you just approach her as an object you miss who she really is. When you just see her as an object, her heart feels it and she can only open to you partially, if at all. When you do so, perhaps unconsciously she will reject you. Consider that she is showing you the pain of not being truly seen for who she is.
If you only see her form then you deserve her “NO”. Because when you just see her body, you yourself are saying “NO” to her and the totality of her Being. How can she really say “YES” to that and open her heart to you fully?
When you really see her light, this is a gift. When you approach her, whether as your woman, or someone you just met randomly, she will feel and sense if you see her truly or not. When you don’t see her you reject her.
When you see and honor her real essence and heart fully she will feel that too, and she will respond. She might not give you her phone number, she might not be your girlfriend, it doesn’t matter. Consider that what she has already given you by being herself is beyond enough of a gift on its own.
She has given you a vision of the Goddess and it has lit inspiration in your heart. Feel her gift to you and let it touch your heart. Then breathe back to her your appreciation for the blessing she has been for you.
Show her your heartfelt “Thank You” through your eyes.
The most beautiful gift you can give her is your presence and holding the pure space for her to feel safe to shine. Rather than try and get something from her, conquer her, control her, manipulate her, analyze her…simply love her fully.
As you do, you will find her form becoming even more beautiful than you could have imagined.
She is a Goddess. Worship HER and she will give you everything. When you give her 10 she will gift you 20.
She will bring great blessings into your life. She will manifest Universes in your reality.
Because she is LOVE.
So when you approach her, do so with great respect, care, integrity…knowing through her you are about to dance with Infinity. She is your lover, your mother, your daughter, your sister…she is LIFE.
Always approach her with love, because she is love.
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