No one can reject you unless you give them the power to.
It’s you that gives them the power to do so…So take your power back!
We do so many things to avoid rejection in our lives…
We hide, we lie, we withhold, we pretend, we betray ourselves, we play nice.
As children we learned to adapt and become what we thought would get us love and acceptance. We developed masks based on what worked. In doing so we hide our authentic selves, in an effort to get love, approval and validation.
The real rejection is not so much from ‘other people towards you’, but the ways in which you reject yourself. This is the real pain, this is the real rejection, ‘self rejection‘.
We often become who we think we need to be in order to be loved. But deep down you know that you aren’t being truly loved. You are in fact being loved for the role that you are playing, not your real self.
It’s never deeply satisfying being loved for who you are not…it’s never truly fulfilling.
What ways do you reject yourself?
Who have you learned you needed to be in order to get love?
When you accept yourself fully you are FREE! Self acceptance isn’t just towards the parts of you that you like, but also those parts that you don’t.
When people reject you, it is not you they are rejecting. It is their concept or image of you, it is their projection.
What they think of you reveals more about themselves than it does about you.
Just because someone thinks a certain way about you, doesn’t mean it’s reality. Remember, it’s just their reality. In “rejecting” you they just reject themselves. If you buy into someone else’s negative reality of you, you reject yourself and give their “reality” reality.
Know this: No one can truly reject YOU, they can only reject who they think you are. All they reject is their own idea…All they reject is the shadow of you.
The real you cannot be rejected.
The real YOU is infinite!
It’s your ego that feels rejected because you may be tightly holding onto a position or a way that you perceive yourself to be. The tighter you hold onto what you perceive yourself to be, the more you may feel the need to defend “yourself” and likely feel rejected, as other people think negatively or have differing opinions about you.
Why give someone that much power over you?
Remember: No one can reject you unless you allow it.
Decide and commit today to accept who you are RADICALLY, exactly as you are!
Then you are able to unhook yourself from needing other people’s approval or validation. You take your power back, then no one can reject you.
To the degree you are seeking acceptance from others is the degree to which you open yourself to being rejected. But again, it’s not them rejecting you, it’s that you have given them that power.
The more you love and accept yourself as you are, the less you will care what others think, and the less you will need others acceptance.
Who you are is enough. You are worthy exactly as is. There’s nothing you need to do or be.
You are whole and complete.
Your soul is the ultimate authority and validation.
No one can reject you unless you give them that power…So don’t!
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